Integrated

Masculine Purpose

The Dilemma

The zeitgeist of masculinity has changed a lot in the last 60 or so years, where we have seen a massive shift from un-integrated masculine to un-integrated feminine in men. This shows up in men connected to their emotions and capacity to feel. It’s an important step towards integration, but when stuck here, the masculine looses clarity, direction, and can’t connect to his purpose or give his gifts to the feminine.

If you as a man are stuck here, you will find yourself in de-polarised relationships, wondering where your vitality and aliveness has gone; how you lost your balls on the journey; and beginning to buy the lie that masculinity is somehow inherently ‘toxic’.

Whilst we’ve been given the impression that this is the end point, there is in fact another important step to take: that of integrating the feminine you’ve recently (in evolutionary terms) got in contact with, in with your innate masculine. When these two polarities are integrated and in balance with each other, the masculine part of you brings clarity, boundary, and direction to your feminine capacity to feel and sense outside yourself, and together you become aware of and fired up to deliver your masculine PURPOSE to the world.

In other words: Raw Innate Masculine + Cultivated Feminine = Masculine Purpose

If you find yourself in this position of being in primary alignment with your feminine aspect, and yet know that by nature you are predominantly masculine, you will find yourself feeling weak in your life, lacking in drive and zest, feeling like a boy child in your relationships and a second mother to your children. You will likely be developing a good load of resentment and bitterness at your inert state, but not sure why.

If this description sounds like you and you are busting to re-connect with your wise masculine in order to break through to the next level, be the best man you can be for yourself, your family, and your community then the following programme is designed for you.

The Solution

I run a 6 week programme to get you from over-identification with the feminine, to an integrated masculine and feminine balance. It is tailored specifically to you, your journey through life so far, your particular natural manifestations of both feminine and masculine energies, and gets you to familiarise yourself with and be able to independently maintain your mature masculine expression. It is comprised of the following:

Pre-first Session


A written self narrative guided by questions I will ask you and an in depth week long log.

This is the first big challenge. Initiation to the next level first requires the determination and diligence to look life squarely in the face and be truthful with yourself about what has been.

Initial Session


An initial session that will take anything up to 3 hours, either in person here in Devon, or over Zoom.

During this time we will get a clear picture of your current situation and start you off on your weekly assignments that will be your personal tools of transformation.

Journey Sessions


There will then be 4 ‘journey’ sessions that form the main body of our work together, of up to 2 hours in length.

Here we will track your progress and deal with any obstacles that arise. During each session we will review the work you’ve completed over the previous week, embed that learning in your system, and identify the next step for you to take during the coming week.

Final Meeting


Our final meeting will again take up to 3 hours.

During this time we will assess the change that has taken place, create a plan for its maintenance and further development, and celebrate the gains that have been made!

Additional Information

Daily Check-ins

During the 6 week period, you will also be required to make daily check-ins with me. These can be very brief voice-clip check-ins via WhatsApp or Messenger and will keep you aligned to your purpose.

Weekly Tasks

You will also be required to allow a minimum of 7 hours per week for tasks I will set you. This goes alongside a pretty much permanent awareness of how you are showing up in your masculine and feminine throughout each week.

Support

I will also be available during this time to respond to questions via email or a brief chat on the phone. This is for little clarifications that might crop up during the week, and also for big wobbles you may have during the process that you need extra support with.

Post-training Check-ins

Option to arrange subsequent 1 hour check-ins. Once you have completed the programme, you can book in to talk to me at a discounted charge, if you come across a particularly daunting challenge that you would appreciate my perspective on.

Graduate Hub

There will also be a graduate hub that you can join for alumni who have experienced the process to support each other. This will be a Facebook group that you can meet and chat on as well as optional group check-ins on Zoom.

My Promise to You

This work is my passion and purpose. I believe in it with all my heart. I am committed to your full empowerment as a man in these shifting times. I will ask a lot from you both in terms of commitment to the work of the journey and in terms of financial remuneration for my time, skills, experience, and compassion…. AND…. if you complete the journey and feel that it hasn’t got you to your integrated masculine purpose, I will refund you all bar  your deposit.
This honours my time, commitment and skills, gives you the security of knowing your time and money will be well spent, and gives us both the opportunity to be in full integrity and compassion throughout., gives you the security of knowing your time and money will be well spent, and gives us both the opportunity to be in full integrity and compassion throughout.

Charge

As in electrical charge… the power I need you to put into your process alongside your time and commitment: £1,800

This will be made up of £600 non-refundable booking fee. Upon receiving this, I will send out to you all the course materials you need to be ready for your first session. The remaining £1,200 to be paid before your first session.

Touching in

If you’re inspired by this programme but want to touch in with me before making a commitment to it we can have a half hour chat on the phone. Please text me on 07842 722 053 and we’ll arrange a good time to talk.

Please note though that I will not be available during school holidays.

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