Fully Integrated

Couples

Combining Feeling Discernment with Purpose

The Challenge

This programme is only available to couples where both partners have completed the individual programmes and is offered at a half the charge of your individual programme in order to honour the time, commitment and investment you have both already given to the process.

In this process, the format will be the same, but we will look at you both you as a couple and you as a combined force in your community. It is a deep and vulnerable dive into your individual daily activities, your togetherness in daily activities, your points of connection and of disconnect.

We will take a sensitive and disarming look at your lovemaking and at your wider family love creation. We will examine the nuance of communication and emotional expression possible in an integrated relationship. And we will also look at how you as a couple express your love within the wider community.

Throughout all this we’ll look for places for positive change and growth so that your relationship is the most fulfilling, dynamic, and expressive of truth it can be.

The Process

Pre-first Session


A written narrative of your relationship guided by questions I will ask you and an in depth week long log.

This is the first big challenge. Initiation to the next level first requires the determination and diligence to look life squarely in the face and be truthful with yourself about what has been.

Initial Session


An initial session that will take anything up to 3 hours, either in person here in Devon, or over Zoom.

During this time we will get a clear picture of your current situation and start you off on your weekly assignments that will be your personal tools of transformation.

Journey Sessions


There will then be 4 ‘journey’ sessions that form the main body of our work together, of up to 2 hours in length.

Here we will track your progress together and deal with any obstacles that arise. During each session we will review the work you’ve completed over the previous week, embed that learning in your dynamic, and identify the next step for you both to take during the coming week..

Final Meeting


Our final meeting will again take up to 3 hours.

During this time we will assess the change that has taken place, create a plan for its maintenance and further development, and celebrate the gains that have been made together!

Please note that sessions will be a week apart during term time but skip a week or two during the holidays. For this reason I will not take new journeymen for the 6 weeks prior to the summer holidays at the end of July, but kick off again at the beginning of September.

Additional Information

Daily Check-ins

During the 6 week period, you will both be required to make daily check-ins with me. These can be very brief voice-clip check-ins via WhatsApp or Messenger and will keep you aligned to your purpose.

Weekly Tasks

You will also be required to allow a minimum of 7 hours per week for tasks I will set you either together or separately.

This goes alongside a pretty much permanent awareness of how you are showing up in your masculine and feminine throughout each week.

Support

I will also be available during this time to respond to questions via email or a brief chat on the phone. This is for little clarifications that might crop up during the week together, and also for big wobbles you may have during the process that you need extra support with.

Post-training Check-ins

Option to arrange subsequent 1 hour check-ins. Once you have completed the programme, you can book in to talk to me at a discounted charge, if you come across a particularly daunting challenge that you would appreciate my perspective on.

Graduate Hub

There will also be a graduate hub that you can join for alumni who have experienced the process to support each other. This will be a Facebook group that you can meet and chat on as well as optional group check-ins on Zoom.

Charge

As in electrical charge… the power I need you to put into your process alongside your time and commitment: £900

This will be made up of £300 non-refundable booking fee. Upon receiving this, I will send out to you all the course materials you need to be ready for your first session. The remaining £600 to be paid before your first session.

Touching in

If you’re inspired by this programme but want to touch in with me before making a commitment to it we can have a half hour chat on the phone. Please text me on 07842 722 053 and we’ll arrange a good time to talk.

Please note though that I will not be available during school holidays.

Are you in!?

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